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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldbybeep@piefed.world
1 month

How can Americans view their soldiers' deaths as tragic events, despite the U.S. initiating wars and killing other countries' civilians without justification?

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cross-posted from: https://piefed.world/c/questions/p/1282913/how-can-americans-view-their-soldiers-deaths-as-tragic-events-despite-the-u-s-initiating

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    • toiletobserver@lemmy.world
      1 month

      That’s easy. I have had a friend die in a previous war, a war i didn’t approve of either. All human death is tragic. Most wars are unnecessary and perpetrated by a minority in power, a minority who would never be first to a battlefield. Show me someone in power willing to die for their cause and I’ll consider it a candidate for a worthy cause.

        • Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
          30 days

          Why do they always send the poor?

        • mrmisses@lemmy.world
          1 month

          People are gambling with their lives when they sign up. I feel sorry for the poor who have little other choice, but that’s about it

          • xenomor@lemmy.world
            1 month

            I stopped having sympathy for service people and their families after enough time passed for them to realize how fucked the leadership is (and the US culture that fuels it), and to have at least not reenlisted. At this point my attitude is that every casualty is tragic, but y’all actively deserve it.

            My family is friends with another family who have kids of similar age. All three of their kids have enlisted and/or reenlisted during all of this. So far, I have avoided communicating my opinion to them, but if circumstances force the issue, I’ve already decided that I’m going to be honest with them about my attitude.

            • Fishnoodle@lemmy.world
              1 month

              Honestly, I don’t really care at this point. They signed a contract for a job, just like everyone else. But they get free (not great) healthcare for life, and better mortgage rates than everyone else. In some states veterans get tax breaks. Oh and they get free college afterwards. They can also save up a decent chunk of change since basic expenses are paid when on duty/deployed.

              Fucking garbage men do more to benefit my day to day life than any US soldier, and they get fraction of that. We haven’t had a draft since Vietnam. I don’t owe you shit for choosing a job with a lot of rewards and a low retirement age that has a high mortality rate.

              Garbage men don’t get parades. They also don’t make 2-5 years of their life the basis of their entire identity, and tell everyone they encounter about it.

                • ski11erboi@lemmy.world
                  1 month

                  Yeah came here to say this. No one in my circles talks about the death of our troops it’s a tragedy. Just another statistic we throw around when talking about how incompetent our government is.

                • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world
                  1 month

                  Because propaganda and indoctrination of course

                  • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                    1 month

                    I’m legitimately curious if you are asking this because you think only Americans kill other country’s civilians during conflict or if that’s the only country whose murder of innocent civilians bothers you.

                      • xenomor@lemmy.world
                        1 month

                        BTW, it’s not only the murder of civilians that makes the US military so evil. It’s also the sheer scope of brutality, in terms of size and time that the US has perpetrated with not only direct military action, but also proxy military actions, and economic and civil violence that is facilitated by the threat of military action.

                        Other people being shits has no bearing on how big a shit you are.

                          • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                            1 month

                            So I was right. You are ok with murder at a certain scale and efficiency.

                              • xenomor@lemmy.world
                                1 month

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                                  • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                    1 month

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                                      • xenomor@lemmy.world
                                        1 month

                                        Well that literally the opposite of what I said, but okay.

                                • LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net
                                  1 month

                                  I’d hazard a guess that the US kills a lot more civilians than a typical country.

                                    • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                      1 month

                                      <Russia enters the chat.>

                                        • ∟⊔⊤∦∣≶@lemmy.nz
                                          1 month

                                          Russia is not a typical country…

                                            • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                              1 month

                                              Ok, so I gather from the responses, it’s ok to murder citizens if you come in under an atypical country’s murder count.

                                                • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world
                                                  30 days

                                                  From which response do you get the sense that it would be ok? I only see explanations why this discussion is about the US.

                                                  • scutiger@lemmy.world
                                                    1 month

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                                                      • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                                        1 month

                                                        Does this mean we’re not going to be penpals?

                                                      • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
                                                        1 month

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                                                          • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                                            1 month

                                                            It’s a gift.

                                                  • fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.comEnglish
                                                    1 month

                                                    We’re just exceptional at it.

                                                      • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                                        1 month

                                                        We’re a country of terrorists. As you say, we’ve streamlined the process.

                                                        We’re just not the only country of terrorists and my original question to the OP stands. I couldn’t find his post where he asked why Russia’s populace weren’t up in arms over the wholesale slaughter of Ukrainian civilians. I have to assume that there’s something about the US that bothers him more than the murdered civilians.

                                                          • Hetare King@piefed.socialEnglish
                                                            1 month

                                                            This sounds very “you’re not allowed to discipline your child until you’ve disciplined every other naughty child in the world.”

                                                              • Schwim Dandy@piefed.zipEnglish
                                                                1 month

                                                                Intentional misinterpretation on your part does not warrant me needing to explain further.

                                                                  • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world
                                                                    30 days

                                                                    Says the one who’s intentionally misinterpreting almost every response in this thread.

                                                          • njm1314@lemmy.world
                                                            1 month

                                                            It’s pretty easy when you understand how many young men and women join the armed forces because they basically don’t have any other options. They join it to try to escape crippling poverty, because they have so few other options. Which is by design.

                                                            That these young people are being thrown into a meat grinder to serve the vested interest of an elite few. The vested interest of the Epstein class. They’re dying for lies of a pedophilic elite. Their lives are being thrown away for no good reason. How is that anything but tragic?

                                                              • FaceDeer@fedia.io
                                                                1 month

                                                                “I went to fight for the Epstein class because they gave me money” is not exactly the defense you think it is, IMO.

                                                              • TORFdot0@lemmy.worldEnglish
                                                                1 month

                                                                Why would I direct my anger at the every day people who decided to sacrifice to serve our country and not the people that sent them to fight in an unjust and unnecessary conflict?

                                                                Can I fault a teenager for believing their country is worth fighting for? No

                                                                  • nshibj@lemmy.world
                                                                    1 month

                                                                    Honest question: do people really think that attacking a third world country, thousands of kilometres away from your home, that hasn’t attacked you, is “serving their country”?

                                                                    We’re not talking about defending yourself from an invading attack, but going far away to invade a foreign country.

                                                                      • TORFdot0@lemmy.worldEnglish
                                                                        1 month

                                                                        The soldiers duty to refuse to carry out illegal orders such as slaughtering civilians notwithstanding, yes I think volunteering to fight for your country, even in an unjust war, is service.

                                                                        The saying goes that the fish rots from the head down. There are stops all down the chain of command that could prevent soldiers from fighting unjust wars, and that’s where the blame should lie.

                                                                        Sadly the US military has a lot of corruption and pushing back on a CO or refusing an illegal order can end your career in the military or worse. That doesn’t mean I blame the people at the end of the chain, I blame the people at the head. This includes Obama’s illegal drone strikes on targets in Syria and Yemen and various other atrocities and not just Trumps latests

                                                                          • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.caEnglish
                                                                            30 days

                                                                            There is enough blame for everyone who collaborated to murder foreign babies. There is no reason some should be spared responsibility.

                                                                            • mirshafie@europe.pub
                                                                              30 days

                                                                              You think soldiers ar absolved of responsibility just because their superiors are corrupt? Ultimately they’re the ones pulling the trigger, so a massive chunk of the blame with America’s crimes lie with precisely them. They are not innocent, they are murderers.

                                                                                • TORFdot0@lemmy.worldEnglish
                                                                                  29 days

                                                                                  If the soldier is pulling the trigger on civilians then yes they are responsible. If they are pulling the trigger against enemy warfighters in an unjust war, then the buck stops at the CiC. It should not be up to individual soldiers on whether a certain operation is just or not.

                                                                                    • mirshafie@europe.pub
                                                                                      29 days

                                                                                      Sorry, I can not agree given how the USA systematically engages in unjust wars. The USA has bombed almost 500 schools in Iran this year. Even if you’re just the cook at a US air base, you’re complicit. The whole machinery depends on people signing up and dedicating lots of effort into making it work. You can’t claim ignorance in this day and age, and you can’t say you’re just following orders when you’re there voluntarily.

                                                                              • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
                                                                                30 days

                                                                                How do you mean “country is worth fighting for”?

                                                                                Other than 9/11, when was the last time we worried about being attacked?

                                                                              • remon@ani.social
                                                                                1 month

                                                                                Same reason why you care more about friends and family deaths than random other people. Basic tribalism.

                                                                                • 33550336@lemmy.world
                                                                                  1 month

                                                                                  It’s simple: Americans are a kind of fascists

                                                                                    • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.caEnglish
                                                                                      30 days

                                                                                      “I pledge allegiance to the flag…”

                                                                                    • guyoverthere123@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                                                                                      1 month

                                                                                      The death of one man is a tragedy, the death of millions is a statistic.

                                                                                        • WildPalmTree@lemmy.world
                                                                                          30 days

                                                                                          -Stalin

                                                                                        • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
                                                                                          1 month

                                                                                          “They might be known murderers, rapists and thieves, but they’re OUR murderers! Also, the death of brown people is not really sad like that, come on…”

                                                                                          • melsaskca@lemmy.ca
                                                                                            1 month

                                                                                            Soldiers deaths are always tragic. What is even more tragic is the reason they are dying this time around. To protect the trump-epstein class. For God and Country? No, for Don and Jeff.

                                                                                            • empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                                                                                              1 month

                                                                                              The death of any soldier is a tragic event. They are at the end of the day just a human being who had wants and desires.

                                                                                              Sure, there will always be some select zealots who really did sign up for “the love of the game”, as it were. But the vast majority of almost all enlisted or conscripted forces are a bunch of regular folk who are either forced into this by desperation or necessity, or fed enough curated propaganda that they think they’re doing the right thing- and don’t know any better.

                                                                                              This applies to even the worst, US, russia, even Nazi Germany; most of Germany’s troops in WWII were a bunch of scared kids scammed by propaganda or forced into the service when Hitler’s back was against the wall.

                                                                                              And that’s really the crux of it- That soldier died because of their leader’s actions, and that’s where the blame should lie. Lemmy’s insatiable dehumanization of most “colonizer” military forces is frankly downright disgusting.

                                                                                              • reddit_sux@lemmy.world
                                                                                                30 days

                                                                                                Because Americans live inside a special reality where they are never wrong, so if someone kills one of American who was trying to kill them. The soldier is a martyr and the person who killed in self defense is a murderer.

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