Beth

My little adjustments are a spindrift mocktail and I really love leftover pizza. Something about it warmed up and all melty and chewy.

Maybe $300 in total.

The house I’m moving in to doesn’t have AC. Which will be fun during the next few weeks.

A lot of good advice in this thread for some very thoughtful people. OP I want you to practice setting some boundaries with this guy even if you like him and continue seeing him.

Tell him no about things sometimes. Like “no, I can buy that myself”. Make sure he respects your wishes about minor things and has even, level-headed emotionally mature reactions to your boundaries.

Yeah true, but I guess this article is about sexually active individuals.

I like that they talked about the difference in how it feels as well. Solo stuff is maintenance and it can get the job done effectively and reliably. It is obviously not as gratifying. I guess this should be obvious but…who wouldn’t want reliable orgasms with a caring partner? Anyway, it’s good to have the data on the books.