RedSeries (she/her)

transwomen transmen

Trans is short for “transgender”. TERFs combine “trans” and “women”/“men” usually to other trans people. You’re saying trangenderman and transgenderwoman.

“I’m a woman unlike that tallwoman over there.” - most TERFs apparently

transwoman

It’s trans woman. “Transwoman”/“transman” is a way TERFs refer to trans people to “other” them.

These are trans men. They did not hurt our cause, they showed people like you how fucking stupid anti-trans legislation and bathroom bans are. I agree, those men should use the men’s bathroom. Unfortunately they are breaking Kansas law if they do. Their licenses have even have been forcibly changed back to “female” since that was their birth sex.

Introspect if you think minorities protesting their erasure and genocide are “annoying” or “hurting their cause”. If you were alive during the civil rights movement, would you have said the same of Rosa Parks?

I appreciate you clarifying you were tired and misread or misunderstood what this was about.

Yeah that comment was about you specifically. Sorry you had to find out that way

Are you me? Fuck.

The best I’ve got is to be more selfish and be okay with the idea that people and relationships are temporary. When a relationship feels like an event and not a forgone conclusion it doesn’t hurt as bad when it ends. It also helped me with grounding myself and reinforcing that my emotions are not always mirrored and are not factual.