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Cake day: January 26th, 2025
  • I knew a guy who begged for honest feedback. Like kept complaining about how people would ghost him, and wasn’t able to get a date or anything. So when he asked me directly, I pointed it all out.

    And here’s the thing: he didn’t really do much after learning that. He didn’t try to change anything for the better. He just took it in, got real defensive for a while then agreed and accepted that “this is who I am”.

    And maybe that’s okay. But he seems dead set on attracting people who hate it.

    Learning to read the room is a skill set.