So I feel like I might have an interesting perspective on this…
All throughout college, I saw graduation similar to how you talk about it. I basically thought I’d show up drunk with my buddies, it would take half the day, and then it’d be over. Maybe I’d actually walk, maybe not.
For context, I graduated in the Spring of 2020, right when COVID first was becoming a thing. My graduation ceremony was cancelled, and replaced by a Facebook Live stream. Same speakers and similar speeches to what had been expected, but really none of the pomp and circumstance.
Now if you would’ve asked me earlier in my college career how I would’ve felt about my graduation ceremony being cancelled, I probably would’ve just shrugged it off. But it actually happened. And I find myself feeling like there is something missing from my time at college. Like there was no real sense of closure for the 4 years I spent there, the countless late nights in the library studying for insanely difficult exams, no real send off for the friends I had in the class outside my close circle.
So I feel differently about graduations now. There’s always going to be extremes, people who take them way too far. But I see the ceremonies themselves as the way for people (friends, families, professors, etc) to show how proud they are of the accomplishments of the students. And I feel like there’s wisdom in acknowledging that the ceremony is how they are trying to express that sentiment to you, and receiving it as intended.
So I feel like I might have an interesting perspective on this…
All throughout college, I saw graduation similar to how you talk about it. I basically thought I’d show up drunk with my buddies, it would take half the day, and then it’d be over. Maybe I’d actually walk, maybe not.
For context, I graduated in the Spring of 2020, right when COVID first was becoming a thing. My graduation ceremony was cancelled, and replaced by a Facebook Live stream. Same speakers and similar speeches to what had been expected, but really none of the pomp and circumstance.
Now if you would’ve asked me earlier in my college career how I would’ve felt about my graduation ceremony being cancelled, I probably would’ve just shrugged it off. But it actually happened. And I find myself feeling like there is something missing from my time at college. Like there was no real sense of closure for the 4 years I spent there, the countless late nights in the library studying for insanely difficult exams, no real send off for the friends I had in the class outside my close circle.
So I feel differently about graduations now. There’s always going to be extremes, people who take them way too far. But I see the ceremonies themselves as the way for people (friends, families, professors, etc) to show how proud they are of the accomplishments of the students. And I feel like there’s wisdom in acknowledging that the ceremony is how they are trying to express that sentiment to you, and receiving it as intended.