Huh, yeah. According to the APA, even if your BMI would label you as obese, you should be gaining between 11 and 20 lbs.

The more you know. Culturally, it feels rude to even mention weight, so I sure as hell have never asked any of the pregnant ladies in my life.

Isn’t that just the weight of the baby? You should be eating enough to sustain you amd the baby but gaining weight typically means you’re consuming an excess of calories that is being stored on your body.

Wow, lookit this braggart! Satisfied with their life and not passively wishing to disappear.

I think that’s a subset of “disappeared”. If you followed up on the people who disappeared, it’s a coin flip as to whether they just hate people or have fallen on hard times.