• I have noticed a trend that social media is not about being social anymore but I’d more about the “media”

    Its a place to consume media or generate it but interaction with it has become more limited. You can like it, or buy something from it or move on.

  • Mastodon was specifically designed to be less addictive than xitter.

    Lemmy is a lot like the old Reddit. In the current version of Reddit, there is an algorithm that fills your feed with stupid nonsense that is apparently very popular among the majority. I guess that makes it even more addictive than what it was long ago.

    Anyway, comparing modern social media with drugs isn’t far fetched.

      • Soo… is that like newest on top and oldest at the bottom or which way does it go?

        Anyway, my Madtodon feed is really boring. I don’t really care enough about anyone, so there’s usually nothing worth reading. Following hashtags is a bit nicer, but definitely not addictive in the least. Hence, I don’t really use that account for anything. About once a month I take look what’s going on, come to the same conclusion as always, and close the app. Well done Mastodon!

        • Boring is the point.

          This is how Twitter use to be. And it was how Twitter could be with third party apps until Musk killed them.

    • I love that this place still thinks it’s any different than Reddit.

      The algorithm changes little.

      • The algorithm changes little.

        The algorithm is the problem. Lemmy is like coke after they removed the cocaine. It’s good, but it’s not nearly as addictive.

      • The fundamentals are still the same, so in that sense you’re absolutely correct.

        There are major differences that make Lemmy better though.

        • it’s smaller
        • the UI doesn’t suck
        • you can use whatever client you like
        • it’s federated. If you don’t like this instance, make an account in another.
  • 12 hours

    Does that make Lemmy an underground black market? 🤔

    • I would call lemmy home-grown weed, while mainstream social media is lab refined heroine

      • call lemmy home-grown weed

        Yup, occasionally it is really good but every now and again you smoke something so horrendous you wonder how someone grew that on purpose, but also sometimes you find a seed that makes you think about growing something yourself and seeing how it goes.

    • I was thinking Lemmy isn’t even a real drug. It’s that weird kid who hands you a paper bag to hyperventilate until you feel high.

      Or maybe that shit with the whipped cream cans. Except it’s whipped beans.

    • Lemmy is a forum, not social media. It has none of the hallmarks of social media, and is only alike in the fact that you talk to other people, which is literally the entire point of the internet in the first place.

      Edit: I decided to write this up since I argue this all the time.


      Short argument for those that don’t care and just want to argue:

      • governments want to restrict your rights
      • what better way to do so than using a definition that most people think they understand, but actually covers every website in existence

      Long argument:

      Forums have existed long before social media. Social media derived from social networking, sites like SixDegrees.com, MySpace, AOL, Facebook, etc. An example of a pure social networking site is LinkedIn. The elements that make it social networking:

      • real names
      • networking with people you know
      • main purpose is “keeping in touch” with friends and acquaintances

      Social media spread from social networking. People realized they could talk on a global scale rather than just with their friends and acquaintances. Twitter popped up. Most people still used their real names, but many used anonymous tags. It was still predominantly random topics to ‘keep in touch’ but with followers rather than acquaintances. Then Instagram. Still random topics, purpose is still to connect with others, except now it’s sharing things on a wider scale.

      Notice how none of these things are things you do on a forum. You use anonymous usernames and the main purpose is talking about a shared topic, getting help, etc. not random daily posts, checkins etc. Forums are targeted discussions. You don’t follow other users, you don’t know them personally (knowing them personally is not the reason for being on the platform), you have no network graph, and they have existed for decades without being breeding grounds for the terrible things that have emerged from social media sites where fake news can spread like wildfire.


      What does this all lead to? Well imagine that society decides that soda is bad and needs to be regulated (already happened in many countries). So the government decides that they’re going to ban children from drinking soda. Yay! Oh wait, but the government has decided that soda actually is “any drink with flavoring and/or bubbles in it”. Oh dang. You just banned every drink on the planet, yet citizens think that children have only been banned from drinking soda. Nope. No more water, milk, tea, coffee, literally nothing is drinkable by children anymore.

      That’s what’s happening with social media. Social media has become such a broad term, that it covers every website (essentially) on the planet.


      Here’s the Australian Age Restriction law definition of ‘social media’:

      • The sole purpose, or a significant purpose, of the service is to enable online social interaction between two or more end-users.
      • The service allows end-users to link to, or interact with, some or all of the other end-users.
      • The service allows end-users to post material on the service.
      • The service has a ‘recommender feature’ and/or ‘logged in feature’ as defined in the Rules.
      • Material on the service is accessible to, or delivered to, end-users in Australia.

      This means that Stack Overflow, a help forum for software developers, is Social Media. This definition includes News websites that have comment sections (all of them). This definition includes any website where you can talk to another human being, for example a car forum or a microcontroller forum. This definition literally includes Amazon for fucks sake. What would Amazon be without customer reviews? Well according to this definition they wouldn’t be Social Media.

      You might say “those types of sites don’t have recommender or logged in features”, well the “‘recommender feature’ and/or ‘logged in feature’” rule is doing a hell of a lot of lifting here, let’s look at what it has to say:

       (1) For the purposes of paragraph 63C(1)(a)(iv) of the Act, it is a condition that the service has either or both of:
      
       (a) a recommender feature;
      
       (ba logged‑in feature.
      
      Recommender feature
      
       (2A service has a recommender feature if the service can:
      
       (a) select material by reference to any information that the service has associated with an end‑user’s account; and
      
       (bdisplay that material to the end‑user while the end‑user is using the service.
      
      Logged‑in features
      
       (3A service has a logged‑in feature if the service:
      
       (a) has one or more of the following features:
      
       (i) an endless‑feed feature;
      
       (ii) a feedback feature; or
      
       (iii) a time‑limited feature; and
      
       (b) does not enable an end‑user to access, or be exposed to, at least one such feature unless the end‑user is using the service with an account.
      
       (4A service has an endless‑feed feature if the service can display material to an end‑user:
      
       (a) in a feed of material that has no end‑point; or
      
       (b) in a feed of material that has an end‑point, but to which additional material is added:
      
       (i) when that end‑point is reached; or
      
       (ii) at time intervals; or
      
       (iii) in response to the end‑user’s input.
      
       (5A service has a feedback feature if the service can display information to an end‑user about:
      
       (a) the extent to which other end‑users have viewed or otherwise engaged with material posted by the end‑user on the service; or
      
       (b) the extent to which other end‑users have opted to receive notifications about the end‑user’s account or material posted by the end‑user on the service.
      
       (6A service has a time‑limited feature if the service enables an end‑user to view material that is available to be viewed on the service only within a limited period after it has been posted.
      

      Alright so 2(a), literally just means showing anything to a user based on history. So if you turn on the setting to hide read posts on Lemmy then Lemmy immediately would apply here.

      On news sites they use cookies to track you so you don’t even need to be logged in for this to happen, and there’s no rule here stating that it has to be end-user created material so all news sites with comment sections would meet this requirement if they do anything with a cookie or geo location or anything like that.

      For the car forum example you might say “forums don’t really track things”, well that’s where you get into the “Logged-in features” section, 3(a)(i); an endless‑feed feature. 3(b) states “does not enable an end‑user to access, or be exposed to, at least one such feature unless the end‑user is using the service with an account.” well that’s posting, so any forum automatically meets that, so what is an endless feed?

      (4) A service has an endless‑feed feature if the service can display material to an end‑user:  (b) in a feed of material that has an end‑point, but to which additional material is added:  (iii) in response to the end‑user’s input.

      great. So clicking the next button at the bottom of the forum page to go to the next page counts as an “endless feed”.

      Australia is a fantastic example of people thinking the government is enacting one law when in reality they are enacting a law that will regulate every part of society. Australia is moving slowly to not alarm people, but the law does affect these other websites, they just don’t realize it yet.


      To be clear, there is no way to regulate the social media that people think is bad versus any other social media, according to these random definitions. If you see someone trying to regulate social media, or someone stating that social media applies to forums, you should scream and yell and make as much noise as possible, because all they are trying to do is regulate the entire internet to remove your speech.

      I’ve been warning about this for years and everything I’ve warned about is already coming true. As long as people continue to claim that Reddit and Lemmy are social media the problem will only get worse. The problem isn’t talking to others online. It’s these massive corporations that use algorithms to manipulate you. The commonality here isn’t “talking to people”. It’s $$$.

      • definition of social media (from Merriam Webster):

        forms of electronic communication (such as websites for social networking and microblogging) through which users create online communities to share information, ideas, personal messages, and other content (such as videos)

        lemmy fits this definition perfectly, what are you on about?

        • Yep and that definition includes every website on the planet. It’s a completely useless definition, spread by newscasters that have no clue what they’re talking about, completely diluting the term and making it so that lawmakers can pass laws restricting ALL of your rights on the internet but making citizens think only a subset are being affected.

          For example both Amazon, Alibaba, GM’s blog, and news sites meet that definition.

          That definition does nothing to describe social media except help the government restrict your rights.

      • Forums are a type of social media.

        Look, the six types of social media are: mail, instant chat, forum, blog, feed, and game. Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok are feeds. Discord and Whatsapp are instant chat. Email is mail. Reddit is a forum that wants to be a feed, and it used to also have mail, but they got rid of it and replaced it with instant chat. Tumblr is both a blog and a feed, as is youtube. Any site with user pages is technically also a blog, but most such sites would rather be feeds. And then there’s games, most notably World of Warcraft, but also Halo and Minecraft and chess.com.

      • 11 hours

        It feels like social media to me. It has upvotes, replies, notifications, comments, a feed… If it’s not a social media then neither is Reddit, and at that point the word stops being meaningful. Look right now we’re even arguing about semantics just like any good social media

        • If it’s not a social media then neither is Reddit

          Correct

          Look right now we’re even arguing about semantics just like any good social media

          Semantics matter when they’re being used to restrict your rights. The current “definition” of social media was spread by a person trying to get a business degree, and they just made up a definition that happens to include pretty much the entirety of the internet. Newscasters that didn’t know any better started calling anything that made it to the news “social media” even though we had a perfectly fine definition before that. Forums existed long before social media did, forums are not social media, and both Lemmy and Reddit are forums of forums, not social media.

          Don’t get me wrong, Reddit is terrible. But so is 4chan and I don’t think anyone is calling 4chan social media.

  • No, they are not, stop posting talking points that justify authoritarian government policies, those aren’t showerthoughts.

  • Deal with it. You problem. I’m here for a half hour to hour and out. The users in the thread trying to differentiate Reddit and Lemmy are predictablly sad.

    "thIs place is like weed and reddit heroin " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌👍